(37) Way Beyond Your Bucket List

Updated: Jan 31


Not long ago, there was a young woman who wanted to make a video; and because she believed in carpe diem (seize the day), she took a deep breath, picked up her camera and walked out the door.


And started a world-wide movement. Her name is Kalima Silverman, and the movement is Big Talk (as in


skip the small talk).


She approached all manner of strangers and asked if she could interview them. Those who said Yes never expected this question: What is the one thing you want to do before you die?


After some stumbling, the answers came:


I’d take a road trip and tell him I love him.

I’d get on an airplane and go be with my son.

Reconcile with my father and say I love you.


If it were your last day, the one thing you would want to do is the one thing that will most lift your life right now: healing a relationship that has been dragging on your life; or diving into a deeply personal desire


that has been gathering dust for far too long (e.g. art, dance, music, car repair)?


For years, Bronnie Ware worked with the dying, and she compiled a list of their most common regrets. One was: I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.


What can be truer than changing an important relationship or fulfilling a long-held desire?


What can be truer than exploring that new level of your life?


What can be truer than starting now?


* See Kalima's first video: link below

All he ever wanted...

His business was deep in the red, and he was now desperate.


I asked him, “If there was one person on the planet who is holding you back, who would it be?”



He immediately said, “My Mother.”


She was giving him money to keep his business afloat. She had also given him the down payment for his house and had recently taken over the payments.

His insight: "I'm 30 years old and still (like a child) dependent on my mother!"


The power of a deep insight is that it cannot be unseen; it tends to stay with us, prodding, pushing and motivating us into a permanent change.


That one insight put him on a path to becoming the man, and success, he had always wanted to be.


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So many people spend their lives trying to change but stay stuck: being overweight; or trapped in money problems, or an unfulfilling relationship, or a stalled career.

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All She ever wanted...


She was saying, “If only I could find the right guy, I would give myself to him, and—"

I stopped her and asked, “Give your SELF?” Her eyes widened as she realized what she had said and what she had been doing.


A deep insight can, indeed, bring permanent change, and yes, you don’t need me. Who is This Guy?


Why am I encouraging you to find your own answers? Every time we even try for personal understanding, our inner strength increases—a bit more—and that strength translates into other areas of our lives.


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* Kalima Silverman's website and first video: http://www.makebigtalk.com/

* Click this link to begin living a life of abundance:

https://www.danielsperaw.com/blog/money-worries-or-an-abundance-mindset


* The very foundation of personal improvement is self-care/self-love. At this link: https://www.danielsperaw.com/blog/the-essence-of-personal-improvement

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